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# The psychology of change management, explained

Most change management treats hesitation as resistance. The psychology says something else is going on, from competing commitments to the gap between when leaders decide and when everyone else finds out.

By Deepa Singh on Sep 24, 2026

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## The myth of "resistance to change"

One of the more misunderstood ideas in change management is **“resistance to change.”**

It makes a complex human response sound like a behavioural problem that needs to be managed. The psychology suggests something more interesting is happening.

Harvard researchers Robert Kegan and Lisa Lahey introduced the idea of **“competing commitments”.** The idea that someone can genuinely support a change while, often unconsciously, protecting something that the change threatens.

That might be their sense of competence, autonomy, status, credibility, control, or simply the comfort of knowing how to succeed in the current environment.

So when somebody says, *“I understand why we are doing this”* but continues to work in exactly the same way, it isn't necessarily a communication failure.

There may be another commitment quietly winning. Behavioural economics helps explain why.

## Why the old way still feels safer

 "Status quo bias means we tend to favour what is familiar and already understood."

![deepa](https://www.engaging.io/hubfs/deepa.jpeg)

Deepa Singh Chief Commercial Officer, Engaging.io

 

And because the downside of change is often immediate; learning a new system, losing expertise, changing routines, giving up control… while the benefits are somewhere in the future, the old way can remain psychologically attractive long after the business case for change has been established.

## Leaders and employees don't experience change at the same time

There is another dynamic leaders need to recognise too: **leaders and employees don't experience change at the same point in time.**

Recent research by BCG, explored in the Harvard Business Review Press book *How Change Really Works*, describes this as ‘**change distance.’**

Senior leaders may have spent months discussing the problem, challenging assumptions, considering options and gradually becoming comfortable with the decision.

Then the change is announced.

For the leadership team, that can feel like the end of a long decision-making process.

For everyone else, **it is Day One.**

We sometimes interpret the questions, uncertainty and hesitation that follow as resistance, when people may simply be starting the sense-making process that leaders completed months earlier.

That distinction matters.

Because if the diagnosis is *resistance*, the response tends to be more communication, more persuasion and more messaging about the benefits.

But if the issue is **loss of agency, uncertainty, identity or confidence**, communication alone won't solve it.

Good change management therefore needs to go deeper.

## What good change management does differently

1

### Understand what people believe they are losing.

 Not just what they are gaining.

2

### Create agency, not just consultation.

 There is a meaningful difference between asking people for feedback and giving them genuine influence over how a change will work in practice.

3

### Be clear about what isn't changing.

 Change leaders naturally emphasise the future. But continuity matters too. Giving people something familiar to hold onto can make the unfamiliar easier to navigate.

4

### Create psychological safety around learning.

 Change often turns experts back into beginners. People need to be able to ask basic questions, challenge assumptions, experiment and occasionally get things wrong without feeling that their credibility is at risk.

 

And perhaps most importantly:

**Don't assume adoption because implementation is complete.**

A platform being launched is not change.  
A process being documented is not change.  
Training being completed is not change.

##### Why This Matters

 Change has occurred when behaviour has changed consistently enough that the organisation no longer needs to consciously reinforce it.

Because lasting change isn’t imposed. **It’s designed around the realities of human behaviour.**

 

References for Research Quoted:

[https://www.bcg.com/capabilities/people-strategy/how-change-really-works](https://www.bcg.com/capabilities/people-strategy/how-change-really-works)

[https://hbr.org/2001/11/the-real-reason-people-wont-change](https://hbr.org/2001/11/the-real-reason-people-wont-change)

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